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For the first time, I saw and felt how love should be. Somehow, I like sympathizing with the one that's left behind. I am not the kind that cheers for the main couple. I usually cheer for the other girl or the other guy. She accepted his uncertainty till the end. He asked her if she can accept him in his uncertainty and she nodded yes. On that day when they came together as a couple, Yano told her he liked but not sure if he loves her. Even when he left her and even when he reappeared only to assure him he won't come back. When she did understand him, she did so till the end, even during the times when she can't find him. All she wanted was for him tell her the truth and not for him to give himself to her fully. Yes, she set forth some conditions but it is only meant for her to understand his pain not to release her from it. Like everyone else, she has the need to posses the person she loves, Yano most of all. As I've said, the movie portrayed humanity the right way. This is not to say she acted like a saint. One of her classmates said it, "She is carrying the heavier side" and she did so with a smile on her face. In school activities, she always ends up carrying heavy things.
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In her limited interaction with others, she is always shown literally carrying heavy burden. Throughout the movie, that's what she essentially did. She told him, "Your first girlfriend looks for love. Her love may have been articulated by Take's sister when she spoke to Yano about Nanami.
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She just assured him and made him feel she is there with him and that if he wants to, he can give her half his pain.
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She didn't try to make it all better for him because she knew it was beyond her. She didn't try to possess him like a lunatic, she kept her distance when needed and asserted her presence when she knows he needed it. Instead of resorting to fantastic expressions of love, she made him feel her love the right way, by being understanding, patient and unselfish. She knew the guy is all messed up and she realized there is more to his "hang up" than just the death of his ex-girlfriend. By the time she realized he is all hanged up with death of his girlfriend, she was deeply in love with him. Nanami fell in love with Yano aware that he may still be hanged up with his ex-girlfriend who died. It is one movie that portrayed love the right away and portrayed humanity the right way. Given all of that, We Were There is one movie that set it straight. I know I have issues but you have to admit I have a point and it's a good one at that. It is also often misconstrued for lust or stupidity. It is often characterized by people's inability to stay away from someone who is already in a committed relationship. I also frown at the sheer definition love in these movies. I know I have issues but you have to admit I have a point. People live and they become happy every now and then but there is no happily ever after. I also have disdain on the way movies are setting unrealistic expectations about love. 90% of those men don't even notice when a girl's hair is tied or loose, how do you expect them to notice those small details like different types of smiles? How many guys will really stand in the rain while they tell the girl all the small cute details of how she smiles, smells and moves that drive him crazy. It is always too far removed from reality. There are certain things that make love stories utterly disgusting for me.